Freedom Lifestyle Blog
Fear can wear many masks. It often shows up as perfectionism, convincing us to keep working and reworking a project so we never have to risk launching it. It can also appear as procrastination, making us freeze in place or distract ourselves with busy work. Beneath these behaviors, fear whispers that we’re not ready, not enough, or better off staying in our comfort zone.
The Story of My Website: A Perfectionist’s Journey
I know this all too well from my own experience. For years, I worked tirelessly on my website, investing time, energy, and thousands of dollars into creating something I considered "perfect." As both an artist and a Healing Soul Alchemist, I needed a strong visual connection to my site. I wanted it to reflect my energy, to radiate the calm confidence and authenticity I bring to my clients.
But somewhere along the way, I realized that I was hiding behind my website, continually reworking it instead of sharing my mission directly. Fear was at the heart of my endless edits—the fear of not appearing “ready” enough to the world.
And here’s the twist: after all those revisions, I found that my true connection with clients came not from the beauty of my site, but from honest, direct conversations. Talking to people, sharing my story and my passion, is what truly attracts and connects.
Ultimately, I learned to embrace "good enough," trusting that visitors would feel my energy, authenticity, and sincerity in my mission to help others find their purpose, self-love, and confidence.
Stepping Into Fear: The First Step to Freedom
One of the greatest lessons I’ve learned is that fear diminishes once you face it. The first step into the unknown can be intimidating, but often, it's far less daunting than we imagine. Support appears, and the weight of fear begins to lift.
As Franklin D. Roosevelt said, "You have nothing to fear but fear itself."Once you make that first move, you might wonder why you waited so long.
Reflect and Act: What Are You Putting Off?
Think about your own life. Is there something you've been delaying or overthinking? Something you’ve been too afraid to dive into? We often pile on reasons or create endless to-do lists, but could fear be the true barrier?
Now that you've identified what you’ve been putting off, commit to taking one small action step toward it this week. It doesn’t have to be perfect—just one step to break the grip of fear and begin moving forward.
To your willingness to move forward!
You are not alone,
Fabienne
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