In the vast expanse of space, there's a fundamental rule: two spaceships occupying the same orbit often led to disastrous consequences. Similarly, in relationships, maintaining distinct orbits for various aspects of life can be crucial for harmony and balance.

Consider the real-life example of the 2009 collision between an active Iridium communications satellite and a derelictRussian military satellite. Both satellites were orbiting Earth at high speeds, and their collision created thousands of pieces of debris, posing a significant threat to other satellites and space missions. This catastrophic event highlights the importance of maintaining separate orbits to avoid collisions and chaos.

Think about it: when two spaceships attempt to share the same trajectory, their paths inevitably collide, leading to chaos and potential destruction. This cosmic analogy perfectly illustrates the importance of keeping different elements of our lives—children, careers, family, hobbies—separate from the “we” space of a couple.

In a relationship, the "we" space is sacred. It's the unique bond between partners, the shared experiences, dreams, and goals that make a couple's connection special. However, when this space becomes cluttered with external pressures and responsibilities, it can strain the relationship and cause friction.

To maintain a healthy, thriving relationship, it's essential to keep various aspects of life in their own orbits:

1. Children: As much as we love our children, it's important to set aside time that is exclusively for the couple. Date nights, shared hobbies, or simply enjoying each other's company without distractions can strengthen the relationship and provide a necessary respite.

2. Career: Ambitions and professional responsibilities can often dominate our lives. Ensuring that work stays within its orbit and doesn't encroach on personal time can help in maintaining a balance. Setting boundaries for work hours and prioritizing personal time can make a significant difference.

3. Family: Extended family ties are important, but they shouldn't overshadow the couple's space. Healthy boundaries with family members can help in preserving the intimacy and uniqueness of the couple’s relationship.

4. Hobbies and Personal Interests: Pursuing individual passions is essential for personal growth and happiness. Encouraging each other to maintain separate hobbies can enhance mutual respect and understanding, allowing each partner to bring their best selves into the relationship.

By consciously keeping these elements in their own orbits, couples can avoid the collisions that often result from trying to merge everything into one space. This approach fosters a healthier, more balanced relationship where both partners feel valued and supported.

Remember, just as two spaceships need their own orbits to avoid disaster, a couple needs to maintain distinct spaces for different life aspects to nurture a harmonious and fulfilling relationship. Embrace the "we" space, protect it, and watch your relationship soar to new heights.
 

To your harmonious relationships as the foundation for healthy boundaries, self-care and success…

Fabienne

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