Fabienne Marneau - 5 /16/09
SPEAKING YOUR TRUTH
Speaking your truth is not only necessary for healthy communication but
to assure inner peace and good energy circulation. When the Throat Chakrais blocked, the
link between the heart emotions seeded in the Heart
Chakra and the spiritual wisdom
of the Third Eye Chakra is broken.
When the ego feels hurt, attacked or
loosing control, the reaction is often unpleasant.
Speaking our truth is essential however
it must be done in a loving and respectful way. Otherwise the reacting words will hurt
the interlocutor ego back and the vicious circle goes on and on.
This happen with all kind of
relationships but even
more often with close loved ones such as parents/teenagers, siblings, spouses or
partners.Teenagers are famous for been overly emotional,
feeling hurt easily, reacting in excess
out of proportion like milk on fire.
For years, my brother
could not talk to me without picking on me with rude comments without an apparent reason until
one day I calmly asked him why he felt the need to behave this way. I remember that I gave him
a note to read asking that question, so he would be able to reflect on it when ever he choose
to do so without feeling pressured.
He than took me for a ride the
next day and the answer I received was quiet a surprise for me...
“I have to tell you first," says
my brother, "that I do love you very much and also admire you for moving to
the USA by yourself to
create an interesting life. Your kids turned out to be good human beings and that is
telling a lot about you, since raising children is a big challenge. I know that I am
aggressive toward you as I am toward my own older daughter, however the reason is not
that I dislike you both, it is because I see in you something that I don’t like about
myself, or rather, something that scares me. I am talking about the way you are
passionate in life and excessive. I do have the same fire in me, although I am not
comfortable with that, so I fight you unconsciously instead of going with the flow of
Since that day, my relationship with my
brother is much more natural and relaxed.
I shared this with you so you
can reflect and search what mirror may be in the donjon of your subconscious
Learning’s from early childhood influence
how we express ourselves. If such programming was not feed with loving words and thoughts,
the mind remembers and reproduces negative and even aggressive attitudes, thinking that it is
normal, following the behavior of past experiences.
In order to identify the root
of our behavior, Spiritual Seminars and Self-actualized
Retreats are fantastic insightful
awakening tools and guides.
example "The Soul as
Healer" Retreat explore Life Regression
Therapy to find the cause of
difficult circumstances, emotional blocks and /or negative behavior. Through awareness and
forgiveness we'll be able to experience profound healing creating the space for inner
peace and joy, to sustain freely and safely.