Fabienne Marneau

 

 

  GOOD INTENTIONS 

Few years ago one of my clients sends me a very nice e-mail, apologizing for not been proactive with her learning process. Here is in her own words: "...as I know we still have much work to do together. I understand I still have more to learn about myself and the work I will do. Please be patient with me, as my intentions are good. I'll look forward to seeing you in the near future..." See my answer bellow...

 

By: Fabienne Marneau 
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Fabienne Marneau - Date: revised in 2007, then in 1/2012

GOOD INTENTIONS

Few years ago one of my clients sends me a very nice e-mail, apologizing for not been proactive with her learning process. Here is in her own words: "...as I know we still have much work to do together. I understand I still have more to learn about myself and the work I will do. Please be patient with me, as my intentions are good. I'll look forward to seeing you in the near future..."
Here is my answer to the " in the near future":

There is no "near future", all we have is now. If we make a conscious choice of putting off a workshop, a healing session or coaching, it is important to analyze why we are making that choice. We may have a wedding to go to, worries about money, lack of organization to free the time needed, fears regarding the issue that need healing, etc.

Once we face what we perceive as "reality" in the present moment, not in a future projection; we can decide what to do about it.

Sometimes going to a wedding is the right decision; we need to smell the flowers. Give yourself permission to relax, do nothing, which is essential to heal body and mind. In any case, guilt must be avoided, since it is a manifestation of low energy calibration.

If it is because of negative expectations such as fear, lack of time or money, etc, than we have to look at it from a higher perspective and ask the question: "What is the worse thing that can happen to me?"

Write the answer of that question on a peace of paper on the left side, draw a line in the middle of the sheet and write a list of solutions on the right side of the paper.

Write the date on top of the paper and monitor on a scale of 1 to 10 (10 being the stronger) how much anxiety you feel about the issue.

Now, make a decision regarding the possibility of improvement, or conclude that it is not that important to you. In fact, you may not want to change, heal, forgive, get a new job, begin a new relationship, etc.

What ever is your decision write it down and bless it.

Affirmation: "I am exactly where I need to be, I am whole and complete".

Be at peace with the world and everybody in it. Most of all, be at peace with yourself.

We have free will and the time is now!

Namaste,

Fabienne